About Me

I believe that pleasure is political and connection is revolutionary. In a world that profits from our isolation and shame, learning to inhabit our desires authentically becomes an act of resistance. Whether you're rekindling passion in a relationship, exploring new frontiers, or discovering your authentic erotic self, I create a laboratory for transformation that honors both your mind and body. 

My approach to sex & relationship coaching draws on decades of experience in alternative sexuality communities, extensive training in mindfulness and somatic practices, and a deep understanding of how cultural conditioning shapes our relationship to pleasure. As a Harvard-trained anthropologist, I learned to see how social structures impact our most personal experiences. As a Somatica method coach, I help you recognize and transcend those limitations.

I bring a sex-positive, kink-aware, and non-judgmental perspective to this work. Having navigated my own journey through loss, depression, and sexual awakening, I understand both the challenges and possibilities of transformation. I've learned that healing happens not just through insight, but through experience - and I'm here to guide you through that process with wisdom, humor, and radical acceptance.