Rebel Heart Intimacy
Sex & Relationship Coaching
About me
Hi, I'm Bridget (she/they).
My sex and relationship coaching blends decades in alternative sexuality communities, training in mindfulness, somatic and athletic practices, and a deep awareness of how cultural conditioning shapes pleasure. My practice is LGBTQIA+ and kink friendly.
As a Harvard-trained PhD anthropologist, I’ve long explored how social structures shape personal experience. Through my Somatica training, I help clients recognize and move beyond these limits…
I belive that when pleasure becomes politicized, connection becomes revolutionary.
In a world that profits from our isolation and shame, learning to inhabit our desires authentically is act of resistance.
Sex coaching can catalyze transformation, whether you're rekindling passion in a relationship, exploring new frontier, or discovering your authentic erotic self.
Liberation
through Exploration
How does sex & relationship coaching work?
My practice is connected, embodied, and experiential. Whatever you need to work on – from communication skills to boundary-setting to exploring kink – happens in real time, in the laboratory of our sessions. We dive into the actual skills and conversations you need to liberate your authentic erotic self.
My coaching is always grounded in presence, but each coaching relationship is different and is customized to the individual and their journey.
Services
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Individual Sex & Relationship Coaching
Couples Sex & Relationship Coaching (3 session minimum)
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My rate is $150 per hour.
Virtual Sessions are 60 minutes.
In-person sessions are 75 minutes and are held in my Cambridge, MA office.
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I offer sliding scale pricing. Email me to inquire.
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Schedule a free 15-20 minute conversation with me. On this call we can discuss what you're hoping to get from coaching. I'll also cover how sessions work and answer any questions you have.
FAQ
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I offer intimacy coaching that helps people develop deeper connections with themselves and their partners. Using the Somatica method, I work with the full spectrum of what makes relationships thrive: desire, authentic communication, boundaries, pleasure, applied skills, and emotional presence. My approach is experiential rather than just theoretical—we don't just talk about concepts, we practice them in real time.
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Explicit, mutual, and ongoing consent forms the bedrock of our work together—not just for ethical reasons, but because developing consent skills is central to building healthy intimacy in all relationships. Unlike traditional therapy with its rigid no-touch boundaries, our relationship laboratory may include physical contact. This might involve practicing different forms of touch, exploring body language, or embodying new ways of connecting. However, clear boundaries remain: clothes stay on, and sexual arousal isn't our goal (although we do discuss desire and pleasure openly).
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Traditional therapy helps you understand why you're struggling but often stops short of experiential change. Sex therapy typically focuses on addressing dysfunction from a clinical perspective. What I offer as a Somatica coach is distinctly different: we create a space where you can actively practice new ways of connecting, communicating, and experiencing pleasure. Rather than pathologizing your experiences, we focus on expanding possibilities and developing concrete skills. We work with your desires as they actually exist, not as they "should" be according to some external standard. This isn't about fixing what's broken—it's about discovering what's possible.
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Both. I offer sessions either in my Cambridge, MA office or via secure video platform.
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I offer a free 15-minute consultation specifically to explore whether we feel like a good match. During this conversation, you can ask questions, get a sense of my approach, and I can learn more about what you're seeking.
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Yes. My normal virtual sessions are 60 minutes long, and in person sessions are 75 minutes long. However, I can offer longer sessions as necessary, or if you are traveling for the meeting.