Sex & Relationship Coaching

Liberation through Exploration

My Approach

I believe that pleasure is political and connection is revolutionary. In a world that profits from our isolation and shame, learning to inhabit our desires authentically becomes an act of resistance. Whether you're rekindling passion in a relationship, exploring new frontier, or discovering your authentic erotic self, I create a laboratory for personal transformation that honors both your mind and body.

My approach to sex & relationship coaching draws on decades of experience in alternative sexuality communities, extensive training in mindfulness and somatic practices, and a deep understanding of how cultural conditioning shapes our relationship to pleasure. As a Harvard-trained anthropologist and Somatica method Sex & Relationship coach…

How does sex & relationship coaching work?

My practice is connected, embodied, and experiential. Whatever you need to work on – from communication skills to boundary-setting to exploring kink – happens in real time, in the laboratory of our sessions. We dive into the actual skills and conversations you need to liberate your authentic erotic self.

Coaching is always grounded in presence, but each coaching relationship is different and is customized to the individual and their journey. Book a free call to learn if it’s right for you.

Services

  • Schedule a free 15-20 minute conversation, in which I’ll talk to you about what we can cover in session, and we can discuss your questions and concerns.

  • Single Session: $125 (75 minutes)Three Sessions: $356
    Six Sessions: $675 

FAQ

  • I offer intimacy coaching that helps people develop deeper connections with themselves and their partners. Using the Somatica method, I work with the full spectrum of what makes relationships thrive: desire, authentic communication, boundaries, pleasure, applied skills, and emotional presence. My approach is experiential rather than just theoretical—we don't just talk about concepts, we practice them in real time.

  • Explicit, mutual, and ongoing consent forms the bedrock of our work together—not just for ethical reasons, but because developing consent skills is central to building healthy intimacy in all relationships. Unlike traditional therapy with its rigid no-touch boundaries, our relationship laboratory may include physical contact. This might involve practicing different forms of touch, exploring body language, or embodying new ways of connecting. However, clear boundaries remain: clothes stay on, and sexual arousal isn't our goal (although we do discuss desire and pleasure openly).

  • Traditional therapy helps you understand why you're struggling but often stops short of experiential change. Sex therapy typically focuses on addressing dysfunction from a clinical perspective. What I offer as a Somatica coach is distinctly different: we create a space where you can actively practice new ways of connecting, communicating, and experiencing pleasure. Rather than pathologizing your experiences, we focus on expanding possibilities and developing concrete skills. We work with your desires as they actually exist, not as they "should" be according to some external standard. This isn't about fixing what's broken—it's about discovering what's possible.

  • Both. I offer sessions either in my Cambridge office or via secure video platform.

  • I offer a free 15-minute consultation specifically to explore whether we feel like a good match. During this conversation, you can ask questions, get a sense of my approach, and I can learn more about what you're seeking.

  • Yes. My normal sessions are 75 minutes long. However, I can be booked for up to 2.5 hour sessions. These extended sessions are particularly appropriate when we're working on applied skills such as BDSM.

    If you're traveling and would like to get more work done in person, or are looking for a more intensive restart, I offer one or two day intensives consisting of two 2.5 hour sessions per day.

“Modern men and women are obsessed with the sexual; it is the only realm of primordial adventure still left to most of us.”
— Edward Abbey